You attract what you are.
Specifically, you attract what people think you are.
If you want to be noticed, give others more attention.
If you want to be at peace, let go of your grudges and be more curious.
If you want to earn more money, show more value.
If you want to be more confident, put in the time to study.
If you want to find the perfect partner, become the person worthy of a perfect partner.
If you want more grace, give more grace.
Talk is cheap. Venting about what you want will only deliver more of the same result, because you are programming your mind to justify and expect bad things.
But when you stop to ask how you can give more of the thing you want:
AND you commit to doing those things consistently, regardless of your results at first…
It may take a while, but your world will eventually have no choice but to give those things back to you.
Don’t quit. Don’t keep score.
Just wake up every day with the goal to give, and live in the abundance you were created to live in.